testing, testing. aku kira-kira, aku nak kumpulkan suma komen2 biar satu tempat saja. dan kalau boleh, jangan la kecut sangat untuk gunakan anonymous untuk meng-komen. i appreciate every thought you give when commenting. thank you.
Maybe he want's you to tell him that relationship suxx n live a carefree life is becoz he don't want to feel vulnerable again. Vulnerable with feelings and love and being able to be hurt by someone that he cares and loves dearly.
Maybe he knows or had experience that vulnerable feeling and hates it badly coz it hurts so bad when having other people take control of his life, turnin' it upside down and crushed it. Maybe he's just scared but too afraid to show it. So the best way is to shut the feeling whenever it appear so that he won't have to experience any of the hurtful consequences.
Maybe, just maybe he's afraid to let someone in completely and having the power to destroy him. Just maybe...
hmm so u suggesting tht d guy is paranoid now? well, d way i c it:
(1) opening up to sum1 does mean that ure opening a way to let tht sum1 2 hv sum sort of power to being able to hurt u--but to wat extent totally still depends on d person.not dat sum1
(2) if tht partner really is a gud 1, then opening up to him/her only makes u stronger instead of vulnerable. but d only way 2 knw s/he is a gud partner or x will be--by opening up to him/her
(3) a 'so-called-d-bes-way' shouldnt b d way tht forces an individual 2 suppress a feeling/thought
(4)its like: to give in or to give up.if he tries to give in he can either lose or win. if he let go since d 1st place, he already lost and could nvr have d chance of wining.ever.
Maybe he's not what you think he is. Maybe he is damn chicken-shit to get back in the game. To feel the feel that used to be the most happiest feeling. To have someone he can come back everyday and have that person comfort him after a long day. To have someone to talk to without judging him. To have a shoulder to cry on. Or just having someone to love unconditionally, making her happy everyday and see that beautiful smile light up his day.
And maybe it's true he's denying his feeling all this while. Wanting to see that love and relationship sucks and does not mean a thing. Not believing in those feeling again. Maybe he's afraid. Of all those that could happen if the relationship does not work out.
hakhak..hey JM (hihihi yod, yod...), its really clear you want to get back in. your description is perfect! its like you are in a relationship already...heheheh give in, man. why wud you wana deny your feelings all this while?is she really THAT hawt??she made all u all scared?
"Maybe he's afraid. Of all those that could happen if the relationship does not work out." its still is not working out while you are worrying to start it.right? what you are afraid is already happening (it doesnt work out--coz u dont wana start it), so why bother! start it already!!
cant wait to say: "wellkaaammm to the clubbbb!" and say "suck it!" for al the times you made fun of me the relationship type.hahaha
eh, btw.this is not for you, sir JM, but its for my friend. *'you' as in 'he/him'*
if he wanted so bad to be in a rship again, he shouldn't has to blame his past rship and blaming the ex..only hypocrite will gve that type of excuses..im psychiatrist and i know that!!!.. =) if something like that happen, he only make himself harder to believe in love again..and if it harder, he will never find his true love, he never see it even that girl standing in front of him..
erm..i agree that he shouldnt blame the past rship or his ex. but im sure he was just scared with the very idea of getting hurt. without blaming. like, we scared of the idea of getting whipped, regardless of by who and with what.*yes, this sound weird* and i oso agree tht he should not to be scared to try harder if he wana found someone new.
hye wazek!!! sumpah, suka gila dengan sume menda yang kau tulis. keep on writing babe! and owh, not to forget. SELAMAT HARI RAYA and maaf zahir batin dear. =)
;D iman! selamat hari raya juga... kan3??? i bet u'll love sabah! baru mata ni terbukak betapa indah nya tanah sy sendiri.anyway, tu bukan balik kampung...in a way yes, in another way, its a..business trip. but then yes!u hv to follow someday. i bet u can show to the whole world how beautiful sabah is with ur pics~
wazek. sila jangan memandang rendah terhadap diri sendiri k? keep on writing kerana saya suka apa yang awak tulis. jujur. ikhlas. berterus terang.cuma kadang2 agak pening nak faham. lol. joking! hahaha. =) go wazek go!
ala waze, dun care la what others think boring ke apa. u're letting ur thoughts out, and kitorg yg suka komen ni obviously suka ur stuff here. u ada fans kot yang suka follow u ni? haha. and mcm fatinn ckp, keep it up :)
aku baru prasan komen farah n fatin..darn...aku rasa hati aku mati seminggu dua ni..tak dapat tulis da... fatin, asal la ko padam blog ko..sedeyh...nyway, thanx to both of u..;)
@husna Not everyone heals as fast as you do: agree rite?! but well, i'm supposed to realize that earlier from a lost friend but i guess im too late.but hey, yah..setiap org ada kelebihan msg2!hehehe cuma kekurangan aku byk sgt...heeh~
Dear, talk about weakness, i tell u wutt, ive done lots of wrong things in my life, I did accept my weaknesses, but until now i still don’t like it and I’m working to overcome it. The good thing is (i think at first) was I feel comfortable talking about it with another people, and I feel better when I do it but it juz sementara coz later i feel regret menjatuhkan maruah org lain even i have no intention to do it or for me, im juz telling the truth, but im not supposed to malukan org lain to make myself better..so dear, the best way is,we must accepted our weaknesses and be better person and have pride on kelebihan yg kita ada (u pandai lukis contohnya, i tak pandai langsung) because sometimes we can’t forgive ourself for some feelings, thoughts and decisions we made. The day we're able to do that, we'll be happy again.. =)
@husna. im not really sure where ure going with ur comment.let me try:
-youre trying to say that i shouldnt be too comfortable talking about my weaknesses to others (in this sense write about it in public blog)? but then, how can the case of i menjatuhkan maruah org lain n memalukan org lain come into the picture with writing about my weaknesses?
hahahak..no no..its not you..im telling bout myself..dont get me wrong here..haha.. what im trying to tell u is, setiap org ada weakness masing2, terpulang to them how they overcome it..and u sangatlah banyak kelebihan i tengok kat sini...so, jangan ckp "kekurangan u banyak sangat ok"
sudah lama tidak membaca blog waznah ini..kita benci penipu juga..yang bagi harapan palsu pada orang..lucu kan tulis dalam bahasa baku..hahaha..anyway, u mmg pandai..
eh, i bagi u one situation and i want ur opinion about this..
"kami keluar beramai2,ada seorang kurang upaya melintas jalan and dia jatuh, ada seorang yg tolong but other people dont care at all (maybe sbb dah ada org yg tlg), but then kitaorg tercakap pasal that handicapped guy tu, suddenly one of my friend make joke about him,she said "dia lintas macam ayam lintas jalan, pakai spek hitam waktu malam and bla bla bla"i rasa cam nak marah but i dont know what else to say, i balik umah and i fikir, since when we start to make joke of people who have bad lucks and misfortune?"
b4 anything, it really bothers me actually tht i dun knw who u r. i hv a few possibilities tho. having those possibilities is really wat's bothering me.
bout ur situation, i think i need more time to ponder so tht i cn write a 500-600words essay about it.hehehehe
okay, lets decrease your "bother level" to the minimum ok...we dont know each other, i lebih tua dari you, married..hahahak dear, i tau your blog from someone..he said "husna, u should take a look.."..and i took two weeks to read all your posts and i kagum sgt!!!(mesti kembang kan??)u deserve that pujian lagipun..hehe..
masa aku skolah dulu aku tgh naik bas dari seremban nak balik ke rumah. pehtu ade pakcik ni takde dua2 kaki. dia nak nek bas. pehtu pakcik konduktor tolak dia keluar dari bas, sampai dia jatuh terlentang tepi jalan. pastu dia maki2 cakap camni "kau ni asik nak naik bas aku free2 je. blah ah"
aku terkedu. sampai skrg muka pakcik kurang upaya tu ngn tongkat dia terkangkang kat tepi, tgh terlentang. n those eyes. eyes of the lamb, bak kata novel the kite runner.
shit sampai skrg i can see those eyes, n aku akan ingat sampai bila2
damn!! gile teruk!! Benda tu btol2 jadi ke?? n i thot it only hapens in exaggerated scenes in TV-dramas. Tsk...klu jadi depan mata aku pun aku akan ingat smpi bila2... sedih nye..cam nak nanges n marah at the same time..huuu InsyaAllah semua kita akan dapat wat we deserve for our actions..n that includes kondaktor bas tuh.. btw, aku pun tataw knp ak x letak komen kat post.hehehe
to The SoulProject, sometimes, for certain people, mereka fikir lebih baik fikirkan kesusahan diri sendiri dulu sebelum fikirkan orang lain..and bagi sesetengah org pula, mereka rasa diri mereka buat keputusan yg betul dgn tidak menolong,i bg u satu situasi,ada seorang peminta sedekah, tgh minta sedekah tapi dia cukup sempuna, tidak cacat..kemudian ada org yg marah dia "Tuhan bagi ngko kaki tangan cukup semua, pegi lah carik kerja, tau nak minta sedekah jak!!"see, mmg lah bnda tu betul jika difikir logik, tapi kita sebagai manusia juga yg punya perikemanusiaan tak boleh marah sedemikian betul tak??lain org lain caranya, kita tolong mana yg patut, jika tidak mahu tolong, tolak dgn cara yg elok, jika dia memaksa,jadi lebih tegas, but jgn terlalu kejam, Tuhan tidak suka.
to waznah, i suka sgt2 your post, thank you very much sbb bagi pendapat mcm tu..anyway, we share the same answer for the question!!!rasa seronok ada org yang sama fikiran ni!!
the same goes to other situation, its boleh diterima (even sebenarnya salah, its called honest hypocrite) kita made fun of people yg kita tidak suka, kita benci, anything yg kita tahu pasal dia, anything yg dia buat, kita jadikan lawak jenaka kita dgn rakan2 yg lain, mmg boleh diterima..but its totally not fair, its really not ok if we made fun of the misfortuners, our families, our friends, the people we loved or we used to love..its dishonest hypocrite and its really mean..its not cool at all making fun of people like that..
but the reality is, we cant stop what people say, what people do even they are close to us..but we can sentiasa igtkan diri sendiri, i dont want to be like him/her.. i want to be better..life is short, i dont have to buat lawak utk burukkan org yg i benci to others, i dont have to make other people know benda2 yang tak lawak langsung sebenarnya,so, i'll get peace of mind..
since when did we start to make jokes of people?? The day we lost our humility. We forgot how small we are no matter how almost-perfect we are or how superior we are compared to the people we treat badly.
Husna: thanks again for the support and your elaboration. it's an honor that you give ur time to read and comment on this blog. n yes, it makes me happy too that someone shares d same thoughts n opinion wif me. :"D
sinki? hehe. kene betolak ansur tu. kene cube. aku kdg2 mcm nk marah husband aku tp x jadi sbb die baik, die pun rajin masak. jadi kene tolerate. ok wutever. aku tau ko rajin basuh sinki apartment ipba ni. thanx ye waznah. huhuhu =)
ahahaha ye2 jeh... tapi betul fana...sebab kita diciptakan berbeza la kita kena tolerate. nak kata faham, memang mustahil la nak betul2 faham satu sama lain sbb memang dua manusia berbeza...yang penting nya tolerate and the efforts to commit. insyaAllah kita semua dikurniakan pasangan yang bersesuaian kelainannya untuk kita, supaya bukan nya kita jadi statik--tetapi menjadi lebih baik dek kerana pasangan kita.
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testing, testing.
aku kira-kira, aku nak kumpulkan suma komen2 biar satu tempat saja. dan kalau boleh, jangan la kecut sangat untuk gunakan anonymous untuk meng-komen.
i appreciate every thought you give when commenting. thank you.
:D
yeay!
alaaa, mahu comment di post2...
baru lah ade kesinambungan..
huhuhu...
hekhek...aku tau. tapi aku rasa cam boleh je kan kat sini pun. sinambung je kan. hehehe sbb aku malas je...yeyeehh..
salam waze!!! "TER"jumpa plak ko pnya blog.haha
ze bagi nombor c agus.
poji
ji...jauh juga ba ko mintak nombor si agus di sini...telampau...hahaha email me at sitiwaznahnaan@gmail ..klu aku letak di sini, marah plak si agus.
hohoho dah boleh komen ;)
yeay!! ;D
sabar waze, sabar...
when the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
cey.. pandai2 aku je..=p
hey thanx. u still drop by here...hehehe terharu seyh.
i try to be the tougher
red is hot! and im actually wearing one right now... hahahaha. take care waze!
wowwww gud for uu~ wanted to weaar one since thom wore it in one of radiohead's concert.such a groupieeee---eeeuu waznah.
but thanx!! i wll.n u too!!
waz :) selamat pagi ok tak cukup besar dah ke gambar yg di antar kat email tu?
iman~! hehe ok je..cukup besar. saya cuba lukis eh :D
woww published artwork on a mag - cool stuff. congratulations waze ;)
i like the yellow label at number 43 on your list. hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi
do u know what's under that label??
ngahahahaha
wazek, saya suka ape yg kamu tulis dlm post kamu yg 10th august itu. yg sth about gravity tajuk dia. suke suke. =)
:D fatin..~ thanx.. tu post dah-tau-salah-mau-mintak-maaf la tu... ;) n i like your stat on FB today hehe
reading yours, u change me...
;) thank u for reading.
rindukan welly?
marilah ke mari...:D
waaaa...mau..mau....bagi duit, weyh~
kalau kamu dekat dah ajak pi minum dah ni waz...
life must go on
iman~! yes, life must go on!tp kdg2, looking back is a must... ;)
yup..sometimes looking back is a must..experience make us more mature
true,true..experience makes us more mature if we learn from it.
yeah..agree2..
<------------------ dun let it hurt you...
=)
dear anon(s)...though i agree with most of your comment, please state another cuter name other than anonymous ;D
yes! dont let it hurt you! be strong!
nice sketch!!!sila upload selepas dah siap lukis ok..
anon(s) is better..hehe
singgah~
"a short message for yod"
Maybe he want's you to tell him that relationship suxx n live a carefree life is becoz he don't want to feel vulnerable again. Vulnerable with feelings and love and being able to be hurt by someone that he cares and loves dearly.
Maybe he knows or had experience that vulnerable feeling and hates it badly coz it hurts so bad when having other people take control of his life, turnin' it upside down and crushed it. Maybe he's just scared but too afraid to show it. So the best way is to shut the feeling whenever it appear so that he won't have to experience any of the hurtful consequences.
Maybe, just maybe he's afraid to let someone in completely and having the power to destroy him. Just maybe...
hmm so u suggesting tht d guy is paranoid now? well, d way i c it:
(1) opening up to sum1 does mean that ure opening a way to let tht sum1 2 hv sum sort of power to being able to hurt u--but to wat extent totally still depends on d person.not dat sum1
(2) if tht partner really is a gud 1, then opening up to him/her only makes u stronger instead of vulnerable. but d only way 2 knw s/he is a gud partner or x will be--by opening up to him/her
(3) a 'so-called-d-bes-way' shouldnt b d way tht forces an individual 2 suppress a feeling/thought
(4)its like: to give in or to give up.if he tries to give in he can either lose or win. if he let go since d 1st place, he already lost and could nvr have d chance of wining.ever.
just maybe too. hehe
"relationship sucks"
Maybe he's not what you think he is. Maybe he is damn chicken-shit to get back in the game. To feel the feel that used to be the most happiest feeling. To have someone he can come back everyday and have that person comfort him after a long day. To have someone to talk to without judging him. To have a shoulder to cry on. Or just having someone to love unconditionally, making her happy everyday and see that beautiful smile light up his day.
And maybe it's true he's denying his feeling all this while. Wanting to see that love and relationship sucks and does not mean a thing. Not believing in those feeling again. Maybe he's afraid. Of all those that could happen if the relationship does not work out.
Just maybe...
hakhak..hey JM (hihihi yod, yod...), its really clear you want to get back in. your description is perfect! its like you are in a relationship already...heheheh give in, man.
why wud you wana deny your feelings all this while?is she really THAT hawt??she made all u all scared?
"Maybe he's afraid. Of all those that could happen if the relationship does not work out." its still is not working out while you are worrying to start it.right? what you are afraid is already happening (it doesnt work out--coz u dont wana start it), so why bother! start it already!!
cant wait to say: "wellkaaammm to the clubbbb!" and say "suck it!" for al the times you made fun of me the relationship type.hahaha
eh, btw.this is not for you, sir JM, but its for my friend. *'you' as in 'he/him'*
"Maybe he's afraid. Of all those that could happen if the relationship does not work out."
yuor fren is hypocrite..
can you explain more on that, husna? coz i cant think how hypocrisy is related to chicken-ness...hehehehe
if he wanted so bad to be in a rship again, he shouldn't has to blame his past rship and blaming the ex..only hypocrite will gve that type of excuses..im psychiatrist and i know that!!!.. =)
if something like that happen, he only make himself harder to believe in love again..and if it harder, he will never find his true love, he never see it even that girl standing in front of him..
erm..i agree that he shouldnt blame the past rship or his ex. but im sure he was just scared with the very idea of getting hurt. without blaming. like, we scared of the idea of getting whipped, regardless of by who and with what.*yes, this sound weird*
and i oso agree tht he should not to be scared to try harder if he wana found someone new.
waze! selamat hari raya jugak! :D maaf kalau ada salah silap kee..
:D selamat hari raya!!rindu raya Welly...wuuuu
hye wazek!!! sumpah, suka gila dengan sume menda yang kau tulis. keep on writing babe! and owh, not to forget. SELAMAT HARI RAYA and maaf zahir batin dear. =)
OWh, darn...aku sangat terharu, fatin... Glad you like it... huhuhuhu This really made my dayy!
dude..
i love u
that's all that matters
aite? =)
uishh...fana, takot seyh...ko bt lawak ke?*tak paham joke*
but wat the heck
i luv u too
*berlari2 in circles*
Selamat Hari Raya. Maaf Zahir Batin.
p/s: Sabah is beautiful. Certainly not an awful place. I've been there :)
@anon
selamat hari raya. yes ofcourse. thats one of the lies.sabah isnt awful..its so beautiful here..and im not saying tht because its my home
waz sori lambat :) selamat hari raya maaf zahir batin .. nak balik kampung lain kali nak follow nampak cam menarik
;D iman! selamat hari raya juga...
kan3??? i bet u'll love sabah! baru mata ni terbukak betapa indah nya tanah sy sendiri.anyway, tu bukan balik kampung...in a way yes, in another way, its a..business trip.
but then yes!u hv to follow someday. i bet u can show to the whole world how beautiful sabah is with ur pics~
wazek. sila jangan memandang rendah terhadap diri sendiri k? keep on writing kerana saya suka apa yang awak tulis. jujur. ikhlas. berterus terang.cuma kadang2 agak pening nak faham. lol. joking! hahaha. =) go wazek go!
ala waze, dun care la what others think boring ke apa. u're letting ur thoughts out, and kitorg yg suka komen ni obviously suka ur stuff here. u ada fans kot yang suka follow u ni? haha. and mcm fatinn ckp, keep it up :)
u inspire others ;) thank you for tht!
ya dear..i like this crappy things...MOST kot..pls keep on writing..
geee...u made me blush..hik3 is this husna welly, btw? sorry if i got d wrong person..but, thanx for the encouragement anyway!!
aku baru prasan komen farah n fatin..darn...aku rasa hati aku mati seminggu dua ni..tak dapat tulis da...
fatin, asal la ko padam blog ko..sedeyh...nyway, thanx to both of u..;)
missed my turn..who's next?
Not everyone heals as fast as you do...
I LIKE!!!
hey, never underestimate urself k..setiap org ada kelebihan msg2..
@saya you really shouldnt miss ur turn..hek3
@husna Not everyone heals as fast as you do: agree rite?! but well, i'm supposed to realize that earlier from a lost friend but i guess im too late.but hey, yah..setiap org ada kelebihan msg2!hehehe cuma kekurangan aku byk sgt...heeh~
Dear, talk about weakness, i tell u wutt, ive done lots of wrong things in my life, I did accept my weaknesses, but until now i still don’t like it and I’m working to overcome it. The good thing is (i think at first) was I feel comfortable talking about it with another people, and I feel better when I do it but it juz sementara coz later i feel regret menjatuhkan maruah org lain even i have no intention to do it or for me, im juz telling the truth, but im not supposed to malukan org lain to make myself better..so dear, the best way is,we must accepted our weaknesses and be better person and have pride on kelebihan yg kita ada (u pandai lukis contohnya, i tak pandai langsung) because sometimes we can’t forgive ourself for some feelings, thoughts and decisions we made. The day we're able to do that, we'll be happy again.. =)
@husna.
im not really sure where ure going with ur comment.let me try:
-youre trying to say that i shouldnt be too comfortable talking about my weaknesses to others (in this sense write about it in public blog)?
but then, how can the case of i menjatuhkan maruah org lain n memalukan org lain come into the picture with writing about my weaknesses?
i have a lot to learn in life. ;)
hahahak..no no..its not you..im telling bout myself..dont get me wrong here..haha..
what im trying to tell u is, setiap org ada weakness masing2, terpulang to them how they overcome it..and u sangatlah banyak kelebihan i tengok kat sini...so, jangan ckp "kekurangan u banyak sangat ok"
:D kelebihan sy yg byk tu *hihihi* x boleh over-write kekurangan sy yg byk juga.
i'll improve by time, hopefully. ;) trimakasih atas nasihat
sudah lama tidak membaca blog waznah ini..kita benci penipu juga..yang bagi harapan palsu pada orang..lucu kan tulis dalam bahasa baku..hahaha..anyway, u mmg pandai..
:) selamat kembali kalau begitu.. sprt mana yg anda lihat, kawasan komen ni mmg usang tanpa anda. iya...sangat lucu sebenarnya.hehehe
u miss me??u should be!!hahahak
eh, i bagi u one situation and i want ur opinion about this..
"kami keluar beramai2,ada seorang kurang upaya melintas jalan and dia jatuh, ada seorang yg tolong but other people dont care at all (maybe sbb dah ada org yg tlg), but then kitaorg tercakap pasal that handicapped guy tu, suddenly one of my friend make joke about him,she said "dia lintas macam ayam lintas jalan, pakai spek hitam waktu malam and bla bla bla"i rasa cam nak marah but i dont know what else to say, i balik umah and i fikir, since when we start to make joke of people who have bad lucks and misfortune?"
silalah waznah, apa pendapat u?
b4 anything, it really bothers me actually tht i dun knw who u r. i hv a few possibilities tho. having those possibilities is really wat's bothering me.
bout ur situation, i think i need more time to ponder so tht i cn write a 500-600words essay about it.hehehehe
okay, lets decrease your "bother level" to the minimum ok...we dont know each other, i lebih tua dari you, married..hahahak dear, i tau your blog from someone..he said "husna, u should take a look.."..and i took two weeks to read all your posts and i kagum sgt!!!(mesti kembang kan??)u deserve that pujian lagipun..hehe..
okay, cant wait to see your essay!!TQ
awatlaaa hang tak put comment kat post aja.
i was reading your says about the unfortunates.
masa aku skolah dulu aku tgh naik bas dari seremban nak balik ke rumah. pehtu ade pakcik ni takde dua2 kaki. dia nak nek bas. pehtu pakcik konduktor tolak dia keluar dari bas, sampai dia jatuh terlentang tepi jalan. pastu dia maki2 cakap camni "kau ni asik nak naik bas aku free2 je. blah ah"
aku terkedu. sampai skrg muka pakcik kurang upaya tu ngn tongkat dia terkangkang kat tepi, tgh terlentang. n those eyes. eyes of the lamb, bak kata novel the kite runner.
shit sampai skrg i can see those eyes, n aku akan ingat sampai bila2
damn!! gile teruk!! Benda tu btol2 jadi ke?? n i thot it only hapens in exaggerated scenes in TV-dramas. Tsk...klu jadi depan mata aku pun aku akan ingat smpi bila2...
sedih nye..cam nak nanges n marah at the same time..huuu InsyaAllah semua kita akan dapat wat we deserve for our actions..n that includes kondaktor bas tuh..
btw, aku pun tataw knp ak x letak komen kat post.hehehe
to The SoulProject, sometimes, for certain people, mereka fikir lebih baik fikirkan kesusahan diri sendiri dulu sebelum fikirkan orang lain..and bagi sesetengah org pula, mereka rasa diri mereka buat keputusan yg betul dgn tidak menolong,i bg u satu situasi,ada seorang peminta sedekah, tgh minta sedekah tapi dia cukup sempuna, tidak cacat..kemudian ada org yg marah dia "Tuhan bagi ngko kaki tangan cukup semua, pegi lah carik kerja, tau nak minta sedekah jak!!"see, mmg lah bnda tu betul jika difikir logik, tapi kita sebagai manusia juga yg punya perikemanusiaan tak boleh marah sedemikian betul tak??lain org lain caranya, kita tolong mana yg patut, jika tidak mahu tolong, tolak dgn cara yg elok, jika dia memaksa,jadi lebih tegas, but jgn terlalu kejam, Tuhan tidak suka.
to waznah, i suka sgt2 your post, thank you very much sbb bagi pendapat mcm tu..anyway, we share the same answer for the question!!!rasa seronok ada org yang sama fikiran ni!!
the same goes to other situation, its boleh diterima (even sebenarnya salah, its called honest hypocrite) kita made fun of people yg kita tidak suka, kita benci, anything yg kita tahu pasal dia, anything yg dia buat, kita jadikan lawak jenaka kita dgn rakan2 yg lain, mmg boleh diterima..but its totally not fair, its really not ok if we made fun of the misfortuners, our families, our friends, the people we loved or we used to love..its dishonest hypocrite and its really mean..its not cool at all making fun of people like that..
but the reality is, we cant stop what people say, what people do even they are close to us..but we can sentiasa igtkan diri sendiri, i dont want to be like him/her.. i want to be better..life is short, i dont have to buat lawak utk burukkan org yg i benci to others, i dont have to make other people know benda2 yang tak lawak langsung sebenarnya,so, i'll get peace of mind..
since when did we start to make jokes of people?? The day we lost our humility. We forgot how small we are no matter how almost-perfect we are or how superior we are compared to the people we treat badly.
wow..waze ada peminat~ nice..hehe..bungee jumping~~ wahaha
Husna: thanks again for the support and your elaboration. it's an honor that you give ur time to read and comment on this blog. n yes, it makes me happy too that someone shares d same thoughts n opinion wif me. :"D
saya: i knw rite, bungy-jumping is soo awesome!
saya paham wo..(merujuk kepada pertanyaan?)hahaha
bagus 'saya'..pemahaman yg bagus! ;D
sinki? hehe. kene betolak ansur tu. kene cube. aku kdg2 mcm nk marah husband aku tp x jadi sbb die baik, die pun rajin masak. jadi kene tolerate. ok wutever. aku tau ko rajin basuh sinki apartment ipba ni. thanx ye waznah. huhuhu =)
ahahaha ye2 jeh...
tapi betul fana...sebab kita diciptakan berbeza la kita kena tolerate. nak kata faham, memang mustahil la nak betul2 faham satu sama lain sbb memang dua manusia berbeza...yang penting nya tolerate and the efforts to commit.
insyaAllah kita semua dikurniakan pasangan yang bersesuaian kelainannya untuk kita, supaya bukan nya kita jadi statik--tetapi menjadi lebih baik dek kerana pasangan kita.
la,kt sni rupanya nk cmpak komen!
haha
baru jmpa!
LOL!
hehe doc..doc...takpe..mmg baru2 je pun buat mende ni..:D thanx for stopping by.
huhuh
slmt mnjd teachr yg cemerlang,gemilang dan tak larat nk bilang!ahhaha
good luck~
(frst gaji jgn lupa blnja!)
terima kasih doc! tapi duit gaji aku nak kompol utk kawen! wuheeeeuuuu ;)
nk btau kamu...td sy baring atas bantal,teringat kamu bobok sblah sy mase di umh nenek...hurrmmmmmmmm....
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